Live and Love A Lot.....

During the past couple years I have learned that a certain  family member(s) doesn't care to be included in our lives. Unless things aren't totally centered or focused on them then they could care less. With a couple exceptions....if it has to do with her parents, sister(s), cousins (even 2nd or 3rd), aunts & uncles and possibly the spouses mother. Plus you must "pay or buy" their time & affection with trips, gifts and plain cash out of our pockets. This same family member claims to be a christians...however I have not found one time during the past 10 years that she has been attached to our family name that she has done one single kindness for anyone but her own family. Relationships are built on 50/50 respect, kindness, caring and giving....not all one way. I believe it is the lack of maturity in this girl as she can't even provide a Birthday gathering without "mommy" doing it for her. Their home is decorated, painted, and put together by "mommy" too. So when do you cut the cord? I would have thought it would have happened after their marriage but no. Then when the two girls were born she might have tried...but it got worse. It's amazing as her 2 sisters seem to have a very level head and know how to do things for themselves and provide for their kids without the help of "mommy."  Life was so much nicer without this girl in the "Little Family"! Not only has she stirred up trouble but she has castrated her spouse to not be apart of any Little Family functions. All I can say for now is that Karma and God will take care of her someday...so I can just sit back and enjoy my family, make new memories, and plan for their futures of college graduates, weddings and our own grandkids.  HEY!

Not a man or women or parents

I am still laughing my ass off at Sara Watson / Munger / Little's comment re: "having the best husband for taking me to Hawaii for our past 10th anniversary."
1. Her definition of a "man" is the opposite of my as my husband hasn't been castrated, brain-washed & told whom he can have in his life.
2. Going to Hawaii is great for Sara as she has NO JOB ....so thanks once again for her parents to give them is trip.
3. I totally disagree & feel these past 10 years with Sara in the Little Family has been a nightmare for all.
4. My husband would have loved to taken me nice on our 10th Anniversary but paying child support, health & dental ins. coverage and 50% of non-covered bills didn't allow us. A man works all his life & one day finds out his first wife has been cheating on him with all the guys in the county...then he pays financially for years!
Time to bring back the "who's fault clause" in a divorce...less bitches like Marcia would think twice. Although thanks to her   I now have been married for 23 years to this amazing MAN, provider, and he gave me our own family of two amazing children with great manners.

A true cancer survior

Samantha was dignosised at the age of 6 with a life threating case of a brain tumor. With her courage and our support she went through hellish treatments of several months of chemo., surgery, radiation and now daily medical daily treatments 15 years and going! We are so proud of her....she has blossomed into the most amazing young women and is now a sophmore in college. Again, our family only had the support, love and prayers from our closest friends, neighbors, and a handful of family members. Which DID NOT INCLUDE THE STEP-BROTHERS! Yet when their 50ish old mother developed a small lump in her chest they all made it a big deal. Which even is still going on 6 years later as she "likes the attention" focused on her. What about supporting the Children's Cancer CAmps?

Fake Family Members

My husbands oldest son, Wes, has become a different person throughout the last decade. Unless things revolve around him or benefit his life then he wants nothing to do with his own biological father and extended family. Which have provided him with our own pocket money, trips, inheritance cash from my Grandparents estate and riding lawn mower, Samantha's precious gift from the Make A Wish Foundation that she got for living through the hells of cancer treatment at the ages of 6-8. Not one thing do we have in our home that has come from Wes and his "disfunctional wife.




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